Sarah's Blog

 You're not a face! You're not a body! You're not here for other people's enjoyment or entertainment. You are a .. .. P E R S O N! Focus on letting your kindness and personality come across to people instead of how you look being such a big focus. Real love and connection is what any of us truly want. You can have that and you can give that regardless of how your face looks.  Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/sarah.ifthikar.3 Twitter:  https://twitter.com/SarahIfthikar?s=08

Bad things happen. We make bad choices.  We have demons we dont want to have.  But if it happened it happened, and ruminating on how it shouldn't have happened or you should've done something differently only prolongs your mental torture.  IT'S OKAY that it happened.  Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/sarah.ifthikar.3 Twitter:  https://twitter.com/SarahIfthikar?s=08

When we look back in life during our last breath, we will all wonder... "Did my life mean anything?" , "Did I have an impact on anyone else's life?" , "Was I loved?" , "Did i matter?" We wont be worried about our bills, our favourite TV show, our beauty or even spare a second thought on others opinions or judgements. The things that matter the most to us will be considered the least. What is important to you? What dreams do you have? Go  get them!  You have just one chance and if you miss it, atleast you'll live with no regrets but with Pride knowing you tried. Who do you love? Who has loved you? Tell them now.. You never know when it'll be your last chance.  Life is magical, dont take it for granted. Trust Yourself when everyone else doubts you, Stand Straight when everyone else is falling apart and be the Leader while the others are following. MAKE YOUR LIFE MATTER! Be Extraordinary! Live Every Moment! ONE DAY life will flash before...

Short, tall, black, Asian, over-weight, under-weight, on texts or in person, everyone gets put down. Each one of us has to deal with hate every once in a while. Hate is everywhere! Trash talk is most popular over the internet and it has become very common today. Gives me anxiety thinking why people find it interesting to let a person down. They never know what kind of battle each one of us are fighting and we all need someone to get through it all. Each and every one of us has a unique amount of feeling, you never know exactly how someone feels about it unless you feel it. Some people think they need to put others down to feel better about themselves or to look cooler, which is totally lame and uncool. The most common way to deal with hate is to just ignore them and never get into that surrounding ever again. Hate sucks because its terrible thinking that we might not look good enough in somebody elses eyes. NO. That's not right.  Always remember to never let anyone define...

Lot of us being forced into solitude where we live and in our own minds. We all know that looking forward right now is hard to see what's ahead. Alot of changes and people frustrated, wondering what to do and how things will get better. But the only way to ignore this is by embracing what you have right now. Today is about living in the moment. Use the freedom this time has given you to build yourself, to focus on yourself, focus on your potential, focus on the power you can hold and the power you already hold.  Life is the most brutal and difficult sport and that is what we have to love about it. Love the fact that life continues to attack us with no timeouts but, to figure things out on the fly. You must always be prepared for anything at anytime. The solitude that we're facing right now is what makes us think about all these things that we dont like about ourselves. All the distractions we used to escape from problems life throws our way, is no longer there. This is the time...

Most of the people dont get to where they want and some dont even start because deep down they dont believe that they can do it. But there's this big secret hidden and that is, "you dont have to believe in yourself to take that leap." In the very beginning anyone of us will doubt ourselves, our mindset, our skills and even the action or leap we're going to take. But the only thing that will keep us going is the excitement of the GOAL we're going towards.  Belief only comes from results and you get results, only when you take an action. Maybe you're trying a new sport or a new job or you're following your passion... nothing matters because you have to get the results to believe in yourself. Always ask yourself "WHY you're going towards that goal?" or "WHY you're pushing yourself to get there?" If you dont believe in yourself it's okay because it's always a strong WHY before every leap you take. Dont give up on your goals ...