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Take That Leap!

Most of the people dont get to where they want and some dont even start because deep down they dont believe that they can do it. But there's this big secret hidden and that is, "you dont have to believe in yourself to take that leap." In the very beginning anyone of us will doubt ourselves, our mindset, our skills and even the action or leap we're going to take. But the only thing that will keep us going is the excitement of the GOAL we're going towards.  Belief only comes from results and you get results, only when you take an action. Maybe you're trying a new sport or a new job or you're following your passion... nothing matters because you have to get the results to believe in yourself. Always ask yourself "WHY you're going towards that goal?" or "WHY you're pushing yourself to get there?" If you dont believe in yourself it's okay because it's always a strong WHY before every leap you take. Dont give up on your goals ...

Build Trust Over Again.

Its not all people who understand how hard it is to trust someone over again after you've been completely broken down. As many tears as you cry over someone or over the capacity to develop into something with someone, it prepares your heart for that one special person who is meant to be with you and who is going to walk in and say "that heart of yours is beautiful."  The voices that you have to silence in your head that are telling you, "remember how that person hurt you and how you've been let down." You have to silence all these voices to say "I trust you." Its not easy because when they approach you, they see you as a confident and strong person. But meanwhile you're fighting all these battles inside that are saying "dont do these."  Theres nothing wrong in trusting someone again after you're been let down or heart broken because you dont know what the result is going to be, unless you take that risk. Rather than living with ...

Let Go and Move On...

  We all know that we cant do or change anything about the past, so why do you and I and everyone allow the past to come and mess things up once in a while. The main reason why its hard to let go is because we think that it should've gone or ended in a different way but not how it actually did. You wish that an event shouldn't have gone that way or you wish that your relationship shouldn't have ended up that way or you wish that you didn't commit that big mistake but, you did what you did and it ended how it ended and it went the way it went. So why do we hold on to the past and wish that it should've happened differently? We go through alot of bad things in life, treating people in a wrong way or relationships we've lost and all we do is just sit back and wish that things could've gone better or differently. we must learn to be okay with allowing the past to be as it is and look forward to what's to come in the future and not only let g...

A Message Of Hope.

We sleep and wake up and we suddenly realize that nothing's the same anymore. New York is no more colorful, Paris is no more romantic and Travelling is no more safe. Smiles hidden, Hugs and Kisses became weapons and Maintaining distance has become an act of love. Despite the saying that money can buy anything, money isn't even powerful and power is not that valuable. Nothings certain in this world. You have a life so enjoy it and stop focusing on the uncertainties. This pandemic taught us that everything around us is temporary and we are learning to live without them. We learn that it is our family who keeps us safe and we also learn the fact that its not 'how' we spend our time, its 'who' we spend our time with. We used to go behind the things we didn't have and we were not grateful for. But now we've got the harshest of moments in life, we dont have to go behind them anymore. We can finally connect with our soul and get to know us better and do the thi...

Quit NEGATIVE Thinking !!!

Just how burgers are important to satisfy our cravings, positive thinking is important for a positive and successful life. But to do that is not as easy as enjoying our burgers. It takes a little bit of your time and a positive intention, "I can do it." The reason I used burgers as an example is because we all love eating, dont we? And the same way we must love the feeling of thinking positive.  Waking up in the morning with a smile is the best way to start your day and to tell yourself that you will be positive for just a day is a merit. Trying to stay positive atleast for 'a' day wont only benefit you today, but it helps your brain stick to thinking positive always and you will get used to it throughout your life. It maybe a little bit difficult, but you have to be patient and push yourself towards positivity, because a person who is successful has a positive surrounding. Suppose if you happen to think of something negative just once, then make sure to think of some...