Build Trust Over Again.

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Its not all people who understand how hard it is to trust someone over again after you've been completely broken down. As many tears as you cry over someone or over the capacity to develop into something with someone, it prepares your heart for that one special person who is meant to be with you and who is going to walk in and say "that heart of yours is beautiful." 

The voices that you have to silence in your head that are telling you, "remember how that person hurt you and how you've been let down." You have to silence all these voices to say "I trust you." Its not easy because when they approach you, they see you as a confident and strong person. But meanwhile you're fighting all these battles inside that are saying "dont do these."

 Theres nothing wrong in trusting someone again after you're been let down or heart broken because you dont know what the result is going to be, unless you take that risk. Rather than living with "what if?", its okay to fall and get hurt and show yourself how can you fight difficulties. 

The only way you gain trust is by actually being trustworthy. Not by trying to pretend trustworthy, lying and secrecy to save yourself from unwanted perception. Truth always lights up and mistakes are inevitable. That's okay. But honesty- from now on is ALL you have.

Theres never a reason to trust someone. If there's a reason, then its not trust.

~Unknown 

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